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[chaoswolf]

Happy b-day, chipuni and christophine.

I wish it were a happy day for me.....My love life has been shattered. Her mom knows. I don't think I'll be able to see her again except at school. I'm so depressed right now I don't give a shit about my essays. I don't give a fuck. I'm sorry if I offend anyone with my next set of words.

DAMN YOU FUCKING RELIGIOUS ASSHOLES WHO BELIEVE THAT JUST BECAUSE I WEAR BLACK MEANS I'M EVIL! MEET ME FIRST BEFORE YOU MAKE YOUR FUCKING JUDGEMENTAL PERSPECTIVES TO DETERMINE THEN IF I AM TRULY AN ENEMY!!!!!!! FUCK YOU ALLL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Comments

[dopple.livejournal.com]

hope springs eternal and you've got de love...you'll survive as will she. Besides, stolen moments can be sweet.

[roaringmouse.livejournal.com]

First, how old is your girlfriend?? If she is over the age of consent, her mother can't do a damn thing;;; However, if she is unable to move.... traditionally, she has to "obey" her parents' wishes.

[grendies.livejournal.com]

They think you're evil because you wear black? What religion are they? O.o

[phantomdancer.livejournal.com]

I'm sorry hon, *hugs*

[kitabare.livejournal.com]

Sorry it happened. Just as a curiosity, not know your lady or her family, are you sure it's because you wear black and not because she's with another female? That was my mother's problem with both of my girls. And the fact that her parents are being portrayed as ultra religious christians makes this seem far more likely to me.

[imonkey50.livejournal.com]

Hanng in there, this too shall pass. I'm sorry her parents are apparently bigots. In the mean time *hug*.

[drewkitty.livejournal.com]

Her relationship with her parents is her business. If she asks your help and support, by all means provide it to the extent you can, but it's up to her to come to terms with her parents and their prejudices.

You cannot control at all what other people choose to think about you, or choose to say behind your back. All you can control is your actions and your conduct. Prejudice is real and clothing affects how people interact with you. It's not fair, it's just real.

By the same token, you can try to clear up any misunderstandings if opportunity presents itself. (Confrontation can be useful in this regard.) That can be a minefield all by itself even when all parties are invested in the communication. If one party simply doesn't care, there's no way to make them care which will not be perceived as an attack.

The present economy and housing market makes moving out problematic -- and being forced by finances into a roommate / living together situation is not necessarily healthy for a relationship. You do realize you live in almost the most expensive housing market in the United States, right?

Good luck with the situation. It could be far worse, cold comfort though that is.

[paka.livejournal.com]

Oh, so not good. Yeah, it does sound like there's no workaround with the girlfriend issue. With the essays can you get an extention on them for a bit while this works through?

Wow. The black wearin' thing is new to me. These guys are really reaching, aren't they?

[shadowwolf171.livejournal.com]

Sorry