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[chaoswolf]

Happy birthday firewolf74!

Erf. Today was long in all the ways I didn't want it to be. School happened, and fencing happened. Think I may have sprained my wrist again during one of my lunges by over-extending. Dumb wolfling...yes I'm treating it with ice & all that stuff.

Um...misdev and flower_cat were here when I got home from Burger King...(I fell asleep on the bus & got off in front of BK, so I figured I'd go for it). After watching a few episodes of Cadfael, figmo came over for an hour or so and joined us.

Then....disaster. I am reminded that I have to play messenger in someone else's soap opera...and I can't say it suprised me...but the fact that I have to do this scares me. I did it via messenger because my phone is dead, and I'm not sure if she'll read it before she goes to school in the morning.

Anyways...not like that matters right now, as I have to go to bed. G'night, folks.

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Wolfling
"Go in peace." --- Cadfael

Comments

[jilara.livejournal.com]

There is a psych word for behaviors involving "playing messenger in someone else's soap opera." It's a phenomenon called "triangulation." It is a dysfunctional behavior that is Bad for all parties involved. A question for you to ask yourself: Why are you doing it? What benefits or repercussions accrue from doing/not doing it?

[chaoswolf]

The benefits: making it better, I hope.

The repercussions: getting yelled at by people involved.

[jilara.livejournal.com]

The sad truth is it usually doesn't work that way. It just gets you involved in the melodrama and gives you ulcers. Used to go there, got the whole set of t-shirts.