C:tGY -- Update
Jan. 9th, 2011 03:11 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
chaoswolfRecurring theme that I don't seem to update until I have something to say. I'll try to get better. Argh.
I don't want to give anyone the wrong impression. I've heard advice about getting a divorce, I've heard advice against this idea, I've heard all sorts of things and I am taking all of it under advisement. No divorce proceeds are being filed at this time, so while comments are welcome I will warn you I'm not going to be taking any action at this point except survival.
The new year sucked with the apartment fire in my complex. The 5 victims had a memorial service yesterday, and the widow is moving to Colorado with her husband's family. I don't really want to live here anymore due to the constant reminder. It was a heavy loss. I lost 5 friends. I don't want to live here any more, but I want to stay in WA. L has spoken of us splitting up (me, T and him) and finding our own arrangements at the end of March, since that is when we'll be covered until rent-wise. T (landlady) has said she will not impose the usual penalty for any residents breaking out of their lease early, because of the apartment fire.
So, in light of the above potential moving out bit, I am putting up feelers here. I'd like to stay in Washington, but don't have any where else to go really. There are a few people I'm going to try talking to at Conflikt, liketechnoshaman and Dix, about possibilities. Worst case scenario is I move back south with mdlbear and into Starport. I don't really want to. That would suck so badly for me because I'll need to move back in with my parents. I'm not amused by this thought, especially since I know they love me but I don't want to make things any harder for them. I'm just starting to get a life up here, and I don't want to sacrifice it. Trying my hand here before I start posting to other forums or communities for options.
Edit 1738: Garlic Jim's wants to give me a job interview tomorrow. I've got no problem with this.
I don't want to give anyone the wrong impression. I've heard advice about getting a divorce, I've heard advice against this idea, I've heard all sorts of things and I am taking all of it under advisement. No divorce proceeds are being filed at this time, so while comments are welcome I will warn you I'm not going to be taking any action at this point except survival.
The new year sucked with the apartment fire in my complex. The 5 victims had a memorial service yesterday, and the widow is moving to Colorado with her husband's family. I don't really want to live here anymore due to the constant reminder. It was a heavy loss. I lost 5 friends. I don't want to live here any more, but I want to stay in WA. L has spoken of us splitting up (me, T and him) and finding our own arrangements at the end of March, since that is when we'll be covered until rent-wise. T (landlady) has said she will not impose the usual penalty for any residents breaking out of their lease early, because of the apartment fire.
So, in light of the above potential moving out bit, I am putting up feelers here. I'd like to stay in Washington, but don't have any where else to go really. There are a few people I'm going to try talking to at Conflikt, like
technoshaman and Dix, about possibilities. Worst case scenario is I move back south with mdlbear and into Starport. I don't really want to. That would suck so badly for me because I'll need to move back in with my parents. I'm not amused by this thought, especially since I know they love me but I don't want to make things any harder for them. I'm just starting to get a life up here, and I don't want to sacrifice it. Trying my hand here before I start posting to other forums or communities for options.Edit 1738: Garlic Jim's wants to give me a job interview tomorrow. I've got no problem with this.
